A small agreement
The Shortlist Pact
Before joining, we ask members to agree to a few simple things.
- 01
Treat people like people.
Not content. Not validation. Not background noise.
- 02
If you're not interested, communicate clearly.
Ghosting is easy. Respect takes effort.
- 03
Don't collect matches.
This isn't Pokémon.
- 04
Be intentional.
You don't need to know exactly what you want — but you should genuinely want to meet someone.
- 05
Show up.
To conversations. To dates. To your own life.
- 06
Leave people better than you found them.
Even if it's not a match.
Modern dating does not need more chaos.
It needs better norms.
Welcome to Shortlist.
Agree & join early access →