The agreement

Terms of Use

These terms help create a respectful, intentional experience for everyone using Shortlist.

Last updated: [Insert Date]

Section 01

Welcome to Shortlist

Shortlist is an intentional dating platform designed to encourage more thoughtful, respectful, and human connection.

By accessing or using Shortlist, including our website, waitlist, questionnaire, or future services, you agree to these Terms of Use.

If you do not agree to these terms, please do not use Shortlist.

Section 02

Eligibility

You must:

  • Be at least 18 years old
  • Provide accurate information
  • Use the platform for lawful purposes only

By using Shortlist, you confirm that you meet these requirements.

Section 03

Our Philosophy

Shortlist is built around intentionality, communication, and respectful behavior.

We are trying to create a healthier dating environment — not simply maximize engagement or endless swiping.

By using Shortlist, you agree to participate in good faith and treat others respectfully.

Section 04

The Pact

Shortlist may ask users to agree to community principles known as “The Pact.”

These principles are designed to encourage:

  • Communication
  • Follow-through
  • Intentionality
  • Respectful behavior

The Pact is part of the culture of the platform, but it is not a guarantee of user behavior or compatibility.

Section 05

User Conduct

You agree not to:

  • Harass or threaten others
  • Impersonate another person
  • Provide false or misleading information
  • Misuse the platform
  • Engage in spam, scams, or abusive behavior
  • Share private information without permission
  • Attempt to manipulate or exploit other users

We reserve the right to suspend or remove access for behavior that violates these terms or harms the experience of others.

Section 06

No Guarantees

Shortlist does not guarantee:

  • Romantic matches
  • Relationship outcomes
  • Compatibility
  • User behavior
  • Emotional outcomes
  • Meeting success

Dating involves human interaction and personal judgment.

Users remain responsible for their own decisions, safety, and interactions.

Section 07

Safety

Please use common sense and personal judgment when communicating or meeting with others.

We encourage users to:

  • Meet in public places
  • Tell friends about plans
  • Trust their instincts
  • Prioritize personal safety

Shortlist is not responsible for the actions of individual users.

Section 08

Payments and Deposits

Certain features or early-access experiences may involve payments, deposits, memberships, or participation fees.

Details regarding refunds, cancellations, or commitments will be communicated separately where applicable.

Shortlist reserves the right to modify pricing or participation structures over time.

Section 09

Intellectual Property

All content, branding, design, text, graphics, and materials associated with Shortlist are protected by applicable intellectual property laws.

You may not copy, reproduce, distribute, or exploit Shortlist materials without permission.

Section 10

Privacy

Your use of Shortlist is also governed by our Privacy Policy.

Section 11

Changes to the Service

Shortlist is an evolving platform and experiment.

We may modify, pause, or discontinue features, onboarding processes, questionnaires, waitlists, or services at any time.

We may also update these Terms periodically.

Section 12

Limitation of Liability

To the maximum extent permitted by law, Shortlist and its operators will not be liable for:

  • Indirect damages
  • Emotional distress
  • Relationship outcomes
  • User interactions
  • Loss of data
  • Platform interruptions
  • Decisions made by users

Use of the platform is at your own risk.

Section 13

Termination

We reserve the right to suspend or terminate access to Shortlist at our discretion, particularly for behavior that harms the community or violates these Terms.

Section 14

Contact

Questions about these Terms may be directed to:

[Insert Contact Email]

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We believe better environments create better experiences.”